What Women Want In A Marriage

During the dating stage ladies might pretend not to makes this things essential but after getting marriage these are few characteristics they expect from their man. While many women really do want luxury goods from men, when you break it down they are just physical representations of some of the points on this list. Which includes: 1. Respect. Show her through your actions that you respect her opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies and minds. You don’t have to agree with all that she says or do, but try to honor her opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat her as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate. 2. s*x. Yes, they love s*x. But, remember that there are four bases to cover in the bedroom, not just one. Try stopping at each base instead of being so focused on the home run believe her, they will thank you for it! Likewise, remember small physical touches like massages. One can never, ever, have too many shoulder rubs. And scratching her heads is pretty great, too. 3. Romance. It’s another night on the couch with take-out and TiVo? Just because they are staying in doesn’t mean the evening can’t be romantic. Light a few candles and see where the night leads. Treat her like your girlfriend, even after she become your wife. Date nights, making out in the car, kissing like when you two first started dating, all of the things that made both of you fall in love, you don’t have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and kids that need to get bathed. Bring home flowers for no reason. Not necessarilly a million naira bouquets of roses here. Even the cheap bouquets from the supermarket are enough to make her smile. 4. Time. She understand relationships can’t be all wine and roses; simply making the time to be with her and treating her like your top priority says “love” more than all the fancy gifts and lovely letters ever could. This includes helping around the house. The realities of a 21st-century relationship are that both partners probably work. If you happen to get home before she does, why not take vacuum the living room or throw in a load of laundry? If you take the garbage out without being asked, chances are you’ll be getting a big ole smooch when you come back. 5. Dinner. Of the homemade variety. You may not be good at cooking and you may not know how to boil water. But greeting her at the door after a long day with fish sticks (or whatever you can wrastle up) makes her swoon, because it shows that you’ve been thinking about her and our hectic day 6. Communication. Women are vocal creatures. They know you love them, but it’s nice to her to hear you say it, too. She can also be insecure. She wish she weren’t, but the reality is that she often notice wobbly thighs and forget about her gorgeous eyes. So let her know when you think she's hot. Tell her she's beautiful. It helps her feel good. Plus, when she feel sexy she's more likely to act sexy. Words of appreciation aren’t half-bad either. Tell her you love the lasagna she made. Thank her for driving the kids to school. If you Notice that she cleaned the bathtub. It doesn’t have to be over the top, just let her know that you see the effort she put in, and you’re grateful. 7. Consistency. This doesn’t mean be boring and predictable. It means that she know you will (usually, no one is perfect!) give her the love and the support she need. Knowing that you’re coming at this with the same desires and energy as she is, goes a long way to making her feel secure. 8. Humor and Humility. These two tend to go hand in hand. This doesn’t mean that you have to crack jokes or entertain her, but just being able to laugh at yourself is enough. Guys who take themselves too seriously bring everyone down. 9. Challenge. Not the kind that makes a relationship constant work, but the good kind that surprises and motivates her to do, be or achieve what she desire. Studies show that partners who prod each other to meet goals. In other words, don’t support lazy or bad habits. If you can follow the above tips and implement them your marriage will be flowing with love and happiness. Give it a try today. * Feel free to contact us if you need any help.. Hower Kimoe