The dream of any lady is to be the idol for her husband, what he this about, what he wants the most, but most times in relationships it never happens you keep wondering why?
Becoming a woman that holds a man heart and makes you his most desired, you must possess certain characteristics. I repeat, if you want to become the kind of woman that drives men crazy, make sure you have these 4 traits.
I have always said that there’s no one woman that all men desire.
As you know, a woman who is one man's everything, and completely in love with, could probably turn another man off, but there are some common traits and characteristics most men desire in a woman.
In fact, I’ll rephrase that.
There are several traits real men desire in a woman. First, before we proceed, there are two different types of men (real men and man-babies) and let’s just be clear on the difference between real men and “man-babies.” A real man will return your calls and texts. He’s emotionally mature. He’s not afraid to talk about his feelings, and he doesn’t panic when you talk about commitment, and does not expect you to play them either. He’s the man that will hold your hand, and cuddle with you on the couch without pushing himself on you, because he’s in control of himself sexually. He’s the kind of man most of my women readers talk about wanting to meet. Which i know that you also want that type of man.
So, what are the common traits the real man wants in a woman that you must possess? Although there are others, but these are the big 3:
1. He wants you to be playful.
Dating should be fun, and men want to have a relationship with someone they can have a laugh with. Nothing turns men off quicker than a drama queen. There’s nothing worse than a woman who thrives on some kind of drama or crisis in her life. Real men want women to connect with them on a playful level. Remember in many ways, men are like big dogs. We love to play, and we love to embrace our inner child. So don’t take yourself too seriously, and be open to the fun life has to offer. It’s all around you. You just need to let yourself go.
2. He wants you to have emotional maturity.
Sometimes in life things don’t go right, and in every relationship, there are going to be bumps. A real man looks for a woman who doesn’t turn into an emotional wreck the second there’s a problem. I can’t stand seeing a woman throw a temper tantrum in the middle of an argument, and neither can most other men. It throws up a huge relationship red flag for us. We want to know that if there’s anything that needs to be discussed, we can sit down calmly and quietly and talk things through, without worrying whether you’re going to throw a vase at our heads!
3. He wants an independent woman.
Don’t be fooled by the myth that men don’t like modern women who have strength and power. Obviously, we don’ want a woman that’s going to bust our balls or treat us like children, but we like knowing you’re in control of your own life. We like knowing you have your own friends, and that we don’t have to take control of every tiny detail of the relationship. Just don’t make the mistake some women make, of not letting the man have the lead at all. We like to feel needed and wanted. Let us come and fix things at your house now and then. We love to play the knight in shining armor sometimes.
So there you have it…3 traits that men desire in a woman. Remember, all men are different and no one woman is ever going to be right for every man out there, but make these 4 traits part of your life, and you’ll rarely be without an eager, loving man by your side!
Thank you!!!!
There are several traits real men desire in a woman. First, before we proceed, there are two different types of men (real men and man-babies) and let’s just be clear on the difference between real men and “man-babies.” A real man will return your calls and texts. He’s emotionally mature. He’s not afraid to talk about his feelings, and he doesn’t panic when you talk about commitment, and does not expect you to play them either. He’s the man that will hold your hand, and cuddle with you on the couch without pushing himself on you, because he’s in control of himself sexually. He’s the kind of man most of my women readers talk about wanting to meet. Which i know that you also want that type of man.
So, what are the common traits the real man wants in a woman that you must possess? Although there are others, but these are the big 3:
1. He wants you to be playful.
Dating should be fun, and men want to have a relationship with someone they can have a laugh with. Nothing turns men off quicker than a drama queen. There’s nothing worse than a woman who thrives on some kind of drama or crisis in her life. Real men want women to connect with them on a playful level. Remember in many ways, men are like big dogs. We love to play, and we love to embrace our inner child. So don’t take yourself too seriously, and be open to the fun life has to offer. It’s all around you. You just need to let yourself go.
2. He wants you to have emotional maturity.
Sometimes in life things don’t go right, and in every relationship, there are going to be bumps. A real man looks for a woman who doesn’t turn into an emotional wreck the second there’s a problem. I can’t stand seeing a woman throw a temper tantrum in the middle of an argument, and neither can most other men. It throws up a huge relationship red flag for us. We want to know that if there’s anything that needs to be discussed, we can sit down calmly and quietly and talk things through, without worrying whether you’re going to throw a vase at our heads!
3. He wants an independent woman.
Don’t be fooled by the myth that men don’t like modern women who have strength and power. Obviously, we don’ want a woman that’s going to bust our balls or treat us like children, but we like knowing you’re in control of your own life. We like knowing you have your own friends, and that we don’t have to take control of every tiny detail of the relationship. Just don’t make the mistake some women make, of not letting the man have the lead at all. We like to feel needed and wanted. Let us come and fix things at your house now and then. We love to play the knight in shining armor sometimes.
So there you have it…3 traits that men desire in a woman. Remember, all men are different and no one woman is ever going to be right for every man out there, but make these 4 traits part of your life, and you’ll rarely be without an eager, loving man by your side!
Thank you!!!!
