Saturday 16 November 2013

Tips To Avoid Heart Break

Heart breaks these days have become a regular song in our society, most especially ladies. Some times ago i watched a video on youtube about heart breaks, about 50 ladies and girls were interviewed and 49 of these ladies already have more than one heart breaks. I decided to check and search for the real cause of these. Fortunately i found the following:
(1) Lust and Love: Most ladies can not differentiate between love and just. Seeing a guy entising you with romantic words can make a lady fall anytime. Remedy: When a guy comes to you and after a few talks and he starts talking about s*x and in every opportunity he's only after romance and s*x just know that this is not going to get anywhere and once he gets what he wants he's off.
(2) Gift: Gift is important and one of the best way of appreciating each other in a relationship. I don't go against it. It's good and fun. But when your guys stop giving for some reasons and you start nagging, he would leave and feel you appreciate the gift more than himself.
(3) Money and Flashy things: Naturally when a guy attracts you with money and flashy things like cars. And you respond happilly by objecting to helping him enjoy the money and always ready to sit in the front sit of his car. Believe me he will end up dumping you and you will feel he had break your heart but seriously that's not the case because he only sees you as the "Chop and Clean Mouth" type of girl. Remedy: Extravagant guys who lives or show flashy(coz some are not real anyway) don't like people who's always ready to spend their money, they appreciate people who guide and make them spend less more.
(4) S*x: S*x should be the last thing you will consider in your relationship. I will advocate after marriage because it's the most sacred thing in a relationship. But these days s*x is the cheapest thing you can think of but if at all you must do it with your guy, make it once in a while not as often, because when a guy you think love you have had enough s*x with you, what else is remaining after marriage. Solution tips; Make sure you stave him and that is if at all you want to do it, make it less often, because a guy that truely love you will not demand for s*x and if he ask you for it and you tell him to wait, He would understand.
(5) Nagging: Virtually all guys hate girls that nag. Although i try to find out why most girls/ladies nag, the response was fascinating in summary 80% said that's the best way they can express themselves and they feel satisfied. Well i will say if you must voice your anger as a lady, there is always better way to express yourself. Discuss with your guy in cool and calm way. He will listen no need to shout. If you can consider the above tips you will be enjoying and having a sweet lasting relationship. All the best

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