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"I love you" Three words that can take weeks, months or even years to say. Also, three of the most beautiful words a person can utter or hear. We dug around for 20 love quotes from poems, books, movies and songs that are just as powerful as the phrase itself. We know ' I love you' isn't always easy to say. We hope these lines will provide the inspiration you need. "I do not trust people who don’t love themselves and yet tell me, 'I love you.' There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt."―Maya Angelou "Love is too weak a word for what I feel. I luuurve you, you know, I loave you, I luff you, two F’s, yes I have to invent, of course I do, don't you think I do?"—Alvy (Woody Allen) to Annie (Diane Keaton) in Annie Hall "When I saw you, I was afraid to meet you. When I met you I was afraid to kiss you. When I kissed you, I was afraid to love you. Now that I love you, I am afraid to lose you...

I know one way or the other We have all had that one relationship that knocks the wind out of us. The things you thought you knew about love become all mirage in your mind because you are blinded by hurt. Bad breakups are emotionally draining. With it comes resentment and sometimes outright anger. The thing about a bad breakup is the more emphasis you put on the other person’s fault, the longer it takes for you to get over it and put the past behind. There are five powerful lessons that a bad breakup will teach you once you stop romanticizing the relationship: 1. Love is not an event. It’s a process Many relationships come to a bitter end because someone’s feelings changed. As great as it may sound, love isn’t a feeling you get when you are around that person. Love is a choice. From those choices come deliberate actions. You invest time learning about them and give yourself a chance to like the person you are dealing with. From that feeling of like grows love. You can’t rush into so...

There are so many wonderful love quotes you can find for anyone you love in your life from parents to children to romantic partners. Here are some of the sweetest, wisest love quotes that you might consider sharing with those extra special people in your life. Your Significant Other If you are looking for a way to show your lover how much you truly and deeply care for them, here is a list of wonderful quotes you could put in a card for them. Or you could have the saying placed on vinyl and placed in your home somewhere. “My night has become a sunny dawn because of you.” — Ibn Abbad “Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” — Aristotle “In my wildest dreams, you always play the hero. In my darkest hour of the night, you rescue me, you save my life.” — The Renaissance “I love you — not only for what you are — but for what I am when I am with you.” — Roy Croft “The only true gift is a portion of yourself.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson “Two souls with but a single thought, two ...

How often do we say the magic words, “I love you”, and then act in ways that communicate something else? Here are some examples to illustrate my point: New Mom: While my partner goes to a daily job and interacts with the world, my big outings are to Costco and Safeway. For 10 months I consistently say, “I need a date”, but you smile and reply, “I want to stay home with my two beauties because I love you.” Really? Show me the love. Make a dinner reservation! New Father: I change both diapers and engine oil, but I can’t show up on your radar. We had tons of bedtime fun when our baby was a twinkle in my eye. But now, when I make a move, you say, “I love you, but not tonight” — for 9 months. Really? Show me the love. Talk to me about a potential solution. Husband: I’ve supported your eBay business and trusted you with using our joint credit card to fund it. But you charged twice the amount we agreed. Now, you blow off my concern with a flippant response that ends with, “I love you.” Really...

22 Ways to Create a Happy Love Life In a world filled with fleeting moments and constant distractions, cultivating a happy love life is one of the most rewarding things we can invest in. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, just starting out, or hoping to strengthen your romantic connection, happiness in love doesn’t happen by accident—it happens by intention. Here are 22 practical and heartfelt ways to create a love life that feels deep, joyful, and fulfilling. 1. Communicate Openly and Honestly Healthy communication is the foundation of any strong relationship. Speak openly about your feelings, desires, and concerns. Don't assume your partner knows what you're thinking, say it, kindly and clearly. 2. Prioritize Quality Time Busy lives can pull us in different directions. Make time, uninterrupted and intentional, for just the two of you. Whether it’s a regular date night or 10 minutes of undistracted conversation, it matters. 3. Practice Active Listening Li...

Are you letting the daily grind put a damper on your love life? Time for a refresher course! Valentine’s Day has become so laden with traditions, expectations, and marketing mania that it’s easy to slip into thought patterns like: “I have to …”, “To heck with it, I’m NOT going to …”, “He’d better do …” and/or “What on earth am I going to do?” All of which create angst and effort and resentment and, often, disappointment; the antithesis of what Valentine’s Day is all about … love! On this holiday, you should be focused on celebrating and appreciating your love for each other. Here are 7 quick attitude adjustments that can help bring your Valentine’s Day experience back around to a true celebration of love, meanwhile adding some high-octane fuel to the intimacy, passion and play in your relationship!  1. It’s All About Them: What are you going to do to express your love for your partner? Somewhere along the way it seems that Valentine’s Day devolved into an expectation that men ...

Love is perhaps our most powerful emotion, and the need to be in a loving relationship may be one of the strongest needs we have. Being in an intimate relationship makes us feel connected, not only to our partner, but also to the world at large. When our hearts are filled with love, we feel profoundly content and satisfied. We become more patient, more empathetic, kinder, gentler. But personal intimacy doesn’t merely affect our emotional well-being. According to numerous scientific studies, the power of love directly affects our physical health, too, by boosting our immune system, improving our cardiovascular functioning, and increasing our life expectancy. “Love and intimacy are at the root of what makes us sick and what makes us well,” says Dean Ornish, M.D., who explores the connections between love and health in his book Love & Survival (HarperCollins). “When you look at the scientific data, the need for love and intimacy is as important and basic as eating, breathing, an...

Falling in love with someone off-limits is undoubtedly complicated and rarely ideal. We’ve got 4 tips for navigating your own off-limits romance. 1) Determine if the person really is off-limits. People who are otherwise open-minded can be very judgmental about love, sometimes ruling out anyone who isn’t their “type.” Here’s the truth: There’s a chance that the person who could love you best isn’t as tall, muscular, or accomplished as you think you’d like. Superficial traits aren’t inherent dealbreakers. So who’s really, truly off-limits? Someone in a serious committed relationship. There are few other people to add to the list: people who show no interest in you despite your obvious interest in them, who are bitter and jaded from previous relationships, or who exhibit a lot of ‘red flags’. 2) Don’t rush in. Of course, what starts off-limits doesn’t always stay off-limits. Sometimes people fall in love in messy circumstances that could hurt other people. It’s not ideal, but it’s a...

A day to show the people we love just how much we love them, Valentine’s Day is definitely special. It’s one of those days where you don’t really want to spend a ton on a gift, but you want to get the right gift. And that’s really what it’s all about – knowing your lover well enough to get them the right gift. And what do I mean by the right gift? I like to think of the right gift as whatever will make the recipient’s heart smile. The right gift is important because giving a gift is a chance to show someone that you love and appreciate them and all that they do for you. The best gifts can be anything from a piece of jewelry to an experience together. It’s not about how much money you spend, but rather it’s about how much time you spend selecting a gift that will make the one you love happy. Here are a few Valentine’s Day gift ideas that I think do a great job of expressing true love and appreciation. Obviously you can make your final decision based on what you know about the love...

Do you want to know the secrets on capturing a man’s heart? Who doesn’t right? Whether it’s a boyfriend, husband, or a long-time crush, women would practically do anything to make their man fall hopelessly in-love with them. I’m sure you also want the same thing. So, I will no longer keep you in great suspense. Here are 12 things you can do to capture his heart and make him love you forever: 1. FOCUS ON YOUR SELF  Probably one of the classic mistakes made by most women is this: They tend to lose their identity once they fall in love. They forget about their social life, life passions, career, and isolate themselves from friends and family. Here’s a quick question. Have you ever thought that perhaps it was the old you that really caught his attention? Don’t fall into this trap as he will miss the independent, confident woman he met in the first place. 2. TELL HIM If he did something annoying, tell him. If you have feelings for him, tell him. Remember, men were not born with ps...

Things You Should Never Do For A Lover You’ve Not Married: Love is about giving in and giving up a few things, but… 1. Don’t change your personality. Now, they say you should change for the one you love. Yes, that is true. But when the changing comes from you alone and it seems like you’re being re-manufactured, then something is wrong. No man or woman should attempt to change you entirely, unless you really have bad habits. Aside this, in the event that you’re separated, the hurt will be worsened by the fact you won’t recognise yourself. You’ll be nothing without that person. A person who loves you must accept the real you. 2. Don’t abandon your dreams: This is another one you should be careful about. Two people in love ca exist without killing each other’s dreams. It is a good thing for both of you to alter your careers and dreams to accommodate each other. But there is a limit. A true lover would aid your dream, ask you to abandon it. Work out a middle way. If you lose your ...

One key to successful relationships is the man's continuous effort in showering lovely and passionate expressions to your female partner, telling her much she means and how much you appreciate and value her. Every woman love truly and needs affection from her partner to see that her love is reciprocated because that is the way their heart is wired, they value instant feedback, and therefore it is important for you to think of romantic ways to show her you love her. We are all different from one another, and so defining ways in which we can please different women is not a simple task. However, generally speaking, most women want to see a certain level of romance in order to be reassured of their partner’s love for them. Indeed, if you know your woman well enough, then you would know what level and type of romance she prefers. But for those who need a bit of help when it comes to romancing their partner, help is at hand. Show her that you make an effort to make her happy She wil...

Heart-breaks this days are normal part of ladies life, but i believe knowing a way to avoid this will help a lady through. So ladies, prepare yourselves to find out what men find attractive in a woman, what they appreciate and what can be a complete turn off. Though, it is very hard to know what men think, because each individual has his own perspective about life and about how things should be but after few research and i found out what were the types of lady men were most attracted to and, therefore find irresistible. Are you prepared to find out? Perfect! Let’s get started! 1. The Best Friend Everyone love the great feeling of being with their best friends, because it create an atmosphere of freedom and safety, this is also applied in relationship too. Many men including myself would love our lady to be the one to whom we can share our concerns with ease, safety and expect unconditional support. The freedom and safety to share with our partner help to build trust and thus that i...

Have you ever found yourself falling for a man you were dating and wondered if he was feeling the same way? Did you find yourself trying to prove what a great catch you are by being sweeter, funnier and smarter in hopes that he would fall in love with you? Focusing on what a man wants and ingratiating yourself in this way may feel like the natural thing to do, but it’s the worst way to try to make a man feel romantic love for you. Love isn’t a reasonable emotion – and being “nice” and “understanding” and “a good sport” won’t get you where you want to go. Here are some ways that will: Tip#1: Don’t give a man more than he gives you Love, and inspiring a man to fall in love with you forever, is all about you being able to receive love. Most of us only know how to give. We give for lots of reasons – because we’re taught that’s the way to get to a man’s heart (it isn’t) because we see other women do it, and because deep down, it feels uncomfortable and scary to be vulnerable enough to reall...

The “it just happened” mindset is ruining relationships and marriages everyday. Accountability and self-reflection is a key factor in developing healthy relationships, because the more accountable we are to ourselves the more accountable we will be to our mates. Refuse to just let things “just happen” in your relationships and love your mate intentionally and on purpose! 1) I cheated on you……”it just happened!” PSA it didn’t just happen…. you CHOSE to do it. You did the flirting, you exchanged information, you entertained the Facebook messages and conversations, you started sexting, you set up the visits. You agreed to meet up; you kissed, you had s*x then you continued to do it. Those weren’t circumstances they were choices, and the quicker we decide to admit them, the less likely we are to repeat the behavior. 2) She’s pregnant….”it just happened!” I understand that sometimes kids are conceived “by accident” , but I also know that it didn’t “just happen!” The structure, time, money, ...

Modern relationship myths are responsible for many break-ups. If you’re in a relationship, don’t fall prey to these insidious beliefs. They will ruin your chances of long-term happiness. Myth #1: Relationships Are Hard Work When you believe that relationships are hard work, then your love life becomes about as much fun as cleaning the toilets and mopping floors. When you’re in a relationship with your beloved, being together shouldn’t be a chore. Relationships do, however, require attention. Fortunately, when you’re in love, you want to spend time with your mate. When tending to the relationship is a shared goal, then enjoying life together becomes a pleasure and a privilege! Myth #2: Love Means Never Having to Say You’re Sorry Quite the opposite — love means that when you mess up, you apologize. Your partner will see the best of you and the worst of you. They’ll see you when you’re angry, tired, hungry, and sleep deprived. If you are cranky, or worse, nasty, even when it feels like yo...

So ladies, prepare yourselves to find out what men find attractive in a woman, what they appreciate and what can be a complete turn off. Firstly, it is very hard to know what men think, because each individual has his own perspective about life and about how things should be. We have however done some research and we found out what men want. Are you prepared to find out more? Perfect! Let’s get started! 1. The Best Friend: Many men would love their lady to be the one to whom they can share their concerns and they expect unconditional support from their significant other. It is very important for partners to share their issues and try to solve them together. 2. The Independent Woman: Men don’t like women to depend on them. They love those ladies that know what they want in life, that have their own career and hobbies. It’s always great to get the chance to share new passions and get to learn new things together. Also, why spend every minute together? You might end up suffocating each ot...

During the dating stage ladies might pretend not to makes this things essential but after getting marriage these are few characteristics they expect from their man. While many women really do want luxury goods from men, when you break it down they are just physical representations of some of the points on this list. Which includes: 1. Respect. Show her through your actions that you respect her opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies and minds. You don’t have to agree with all that she says or do, but try to honor her opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat her as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate. 2. s*x. Yes, they love s*x. But, remember that there are four bases to cover in the bedroom, not just one. Try stopping at each base instead of being so focused on the home run believe her, they will thank you for it! Likewise, remember small physical touches like massages. One can never, ever, have too many shoulder rubs. ...

Here are different ways men pass the “I love you” message across without saying the actual words!!! 1. Passionate, Long-Lasting Kisses Who doesn’t love an excellent, lengthy kiss? When he’s continuously initiating these and you can feel the passion each time he does, it is clear that he’s more than just a little excited to be around you. 2. His Friends Love You If all his buddies are starting to warm up to you and truly seem to enjoy your company, it could be because they know how happy you’re making their friend — thus making them start to find you as awesome as he does. 3. Close Personal Distance You know how it’s unnerving when somebody you’re not interested in gets close to you? It’s the complete opposite when someone you adore tends to be closer in distance than he is to other people. 4. Smiling After Kissing Sure, you can have a little sweet smile after kissing someone whose company you enjoy, but do you ever just feel like positively beaming when it’s someone you love? If you ca...

Today i will be discussing ho to know if your man doesn't love you and just playing you. Most people these days keep believing is he doesn't love me now, he would come to love me later, but please stop deceiving yourself and starting seeing the possibilities. Is he doesn't love you now you don't have to stay, welcome someone who will completely appreciate you for who you are. Love and s*x expert Dr Jane Greer says there are five signs to tell if he’s FAKING IT in the love department: 1. If he says to you ‘I only want to be with you,” pay attention. The question that should come to your mind is, ‘ Well, who else? Who else would you want to be with? Why am I the only one?’ What does that even mean? 2. He says, ‘I want you to have my baby.’ Trust me, that very often is said in the passion of the moment and he means it in the moment but it’s not going to be the way he feels the next day. 3. He’s NOT affectionate and/or if you are kissing and he’s kissing you back but...