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Don't Fear Rejection

Rejection is a possibility for anyone – yes even beautiful women – no matter how much you weigh the averages and make up excuses for why it shouldn’t be this way. Many of the reasons for rejection are as stupid as the day is long, but most of the time there is a longer explanation that goes beyond looks. Consider the traditional art of “game”, we run up on a stranger with some conversation, a little strategy and whatever we know from experience and depending on the way the dice fall we either get some feedback or she disses us and moves away. What tends to happen on the diss for amateurs is that we sit back analyzing where we went wrong, what we lack, and what her problem is. We turn into stuck cars spinning away at our wheels trying to come up with an excuse for the rejection. Consider some of the excuses we tend to come up with: *.Well maybe she has a man. *.She looks like a stuck-up broad anyway. *.It’s obvious she’s looking for a trick with money; I mean this is an expensive ...

7 Ways Being a Perfectionist is Ruining Your Relationship

Perfectionism. In my personal opinion, it’s both an asset and a weakness. It’s good because it helps you have standards in everything you do. It helps you to strive t be your best. But it’s bad because sometimes it causes you to take things a little too far and feel awful if you don’t do something the exact way you thought you would. Regardless of all the good things it can bring to your life, perfectionism can really wreak havoc on your dating life. Here are 7 ways being a perfectionist might be ruining romance for you (and of course a couple of tips on how to prevent it). It’s making you too picky Standards are good in dating. In fact, they are mandatory. You should never allow yourself to be treated badly or settle for less than you deserve. But, often times, perfectionists take standards a little too far. If you’re looking for someone who’s perfect, you’ll never find it. People aren’t perfect. Neither are relationships. So, you might be casting someone aside for really silly reas...

Ebola Hemorrhagic Fever: Natural Treatment Options That Are Ignored

Ebola Hemorrhagic Fever is the disease caused by the Ebola virus . It's a serious disease that it does not even give it's patients time enough most time to survive. So let see various precautions that can help fight this deaaadly disease. Contracting the Ebola virus is a terrifying thought for most people. Regrettably, this contagious and deadly illness is a reality in our modern day world of high-speed travel and immunity-destroying chemicals. But while the mainstream media continues to exploit the situation by seizing the opportunity to push a vaccine agenda, a wealth of information is available for protecting oneself from infection — and treating it naturally if one does fall ill with the disease.  Thomas E. Levy, MD, JD, is a staunch opponent of the view that a vaccine against Ebola is a viable solution to the problem. In light of the dangers of vaccines — namely, exposure to toxins which in themselves cause serious illness, Dr. Levy believes that we have an range of tre...

3 Ways To Your Man Get Closer To You!

If you’ve been dating your guy for a while and things seem great, but it still feels a bit too casual, it may be time to kick things up a notch when it comes to bonding with your boyfriend. 1. GO AWAY TOGETHER If you’ve never been away with your guy, planning a weekend trip out of town can be a great way to get to know each other even better. With no distractions and no one else to hang out with but each other, there’s a good chance that your romantic getaway will bring you closer. After all, you learn a lot about a person when you go away with them, so hopefully your trip will do a good job at tightening your twosome. Take a road trip. Choose a destination a few hours away (so you don’t spend the whole weekend in the car) and get out on the road. Book a hotel if you want, or you can up the excitement by figuring out where to stay once you arrive. A road trip is a low key and low cost way to bust out of your routine for a few days. Go camping. If both of you enjoy the great outdoor...

Dating Tips That Keep You On Fit!

Most people just find themselves in an unwanted relationship and keeps regretting because they don't know what to do!.... Are you one of those who is not exactly sure how to manage your love life? Here are some dating tips that are sure to keep you hip! Don’t expect to meet your husband on the first date! Many women go into their first date expecting to know right then and there if Mr. Man has potential to be their husband. Wrong! Expecting anything more than a great time on date number one is asking too much and places a burden on a relationship that has yet to take form. It takes several months to determine if he is “the one.” Go into your first meeting with the expectation of making a new friend. Let’s start there. If you are expecting more and he fails to meet that expectation, you will be disappointed. No one wants that! And women often prefer their mates to be their best friend, so take some time to build that friendship. Couples who start as friends often have a more ...

Ladies: No One Is Ever Too Young For a Heart Attack

Heart disease, contrary to popular opinion, is not a condition confined to elderly, and chain-smoking males. Seemingly healthy women who wear pink ribbons are also surprisingly in the demographic. Heart attacks are not just happening in nursing homes. Heart attacks are happening to the women you see at your PTA meetings, favorite lunch spots, and playgroups. In fact, heart disease is the number-one killer of women in the United States: The American Heart Association predicts that 365,000 women will have heart attacks this year, and, for those of us under 50, women’s heart attacks are twice as likely as men’s to be fatal. For chest cancer, a far more publicized illness, the latest figures from the American Cancer Society show that approximately 255,000 women will be diagnosed in that same twelve-month period. Would you be surprised to hear that cardiovascular disease kills more women over 25 than all cancers combined? Of course, the good news is there are specific actions that you ca...

5 Amazing Lessons You Must Learn From Bad Break Ups

I know one way or the other We have all had that one relationship that knocks the wind out of us. The things you thought you knew about love become all mirage in your mind because you are blinded by hurt. Bad breakups are emotionally draining. With it comes resentment and sometimes outright anger. The thing about a bad breakup is the more emphasis you put on the other person’s fault, the longer it takes for you to get over it and put the past behind. There are five powerful lessons that a bad breakup will teach you once you stop romanticizing the relationship: 1. Love is not an event. It’s a process Many relationships come to a bitter end because someone’s feelings changed. As great as it may sound, love isn’t a feeling you get when you are around that person. Love is a choice. From those choices come deliberate actions. You invest time learning about them and give yourself a chance to like the person you are dealing with. From that feeling of like grows love. You can’t rush into so...